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PUBLICATION DATE: 06/10/2026
UPDATED: 06/10/2026
"The main idea comes to me very early in the morning with a coffee."
That's how Lupita Tirado describes her creative process. Not in a mood board meeting, not during a venue walkthrough - at dawn, before the day starts, when something clicks and the vision for a couple's wedding begins to take shape. It's a detail that tells you exactly what kind of wedding planner she is: someone for whom this work is not a job that starts at 9am but a constant, living creative preoccupation.
Lupita is based in Mexico, works across Cabo San Lucas, Mexico City, Punta Mita, and Italy during the summer, and takes on no more than 15 weddings per year personally — with her team handling an additional 10, and a firm collective ceiling of 30 to protect the quality of attention every couple receives. She has been in the wedding industry for almost eight years, and the practice she's built in that time has a very specific character: boutique in structure, romantic in sensibility, and meticulous in every detail from the first venue search to the final vendor review.
Lupita's planning process runs for approximately a year, and the first two months are dedicated entirely to one thing.
That's where everything begins, and it's very important to find a venue with character, where there's a lot of magic,
she says.
Magic is not a word Lupita uses casually. Her favourite venues reflect exactly what she means by it: Luna Escondida in San Miguel de Allende, San Antonio Hool in Mérida, Hotel Tamarindo near Colima. In Italy, Villa Balbianello, Castello di Casolle, and the Belmond Hotel. These are not interchangeable beautiful spaces. They are places with presence - venues that carry history, atmosphere, and a quality that does genuine creative work before a single decoration is placed.
Once the venue is confirmed, Lupita moves into what she describes as the part she loves most: the creative process. Mood boards begin seven months before the wedding - deliberately early, because she wants couples to have real time to discover what they actually respond to rather than making rushed decisions. Full mood boards and decoration renderings are complete four months out. The final weeks are reserved for vendor reviews and only the necessary couple meetings - "so as not to overwhelm them," as she puts it. A timeline built around protecting the couple's energy rather than filling it.
During the pandemic, with the wedding industry paused and time to think, Lupita created something that didn't exist before: the wellness wedding concept.
The idea is straightforward and, once you hear it, obvious in the best way. In the period leading up to the wedding, Lupita's studio offers wellness activities specifically designed to bring the couple to their day in the right state - calm, present, and genuinely ready for what they're about to experience. It's included in the package because Lupita considers it inseparable from the work itself.
"I'm very interested in them arriving stress-free before the wedding and with a clear understanding of the beautiful day they will experience," she says.
This connects directly to her broader philosophy on wedding mornings. "The most important thing for me on that day is not to have a rush in the morning for the couple," she says. "I want them to arrive at the wedding moment super relaxed and without stress, because that's where all the energy for that day is created. I want them to have relaxed mornings with a good breakfast and then start getting ready."
The energy of a wedding morning sets the tone for everything that follows. Lupita has built an entire offering around making sure that energy is right.
Lupita is disarmingly candid about what drew her to this work.
I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm fascinated by being able to tell a love story through an event,
she says. She acknowledges it sounds cliché and then says it anyway, because it's true, and because the work she produces reflects it completely.
What she loves most about the day-to-day is equally personal. Traveling through Mexico and into Italy, discovering venues that could become the setting for someone's most important day. Working with clients from diverse cultures and backgrounds. And flowers - she mentions flowers with genuine warmth, the pleasure of being surrounded by them and working with them as part of a larger visual story.
Her advice to couples distills eight years of experience into something clean: "Find a simple yet very elegant style that you can bring to life. Find the best suppliers in each category and perhaps consider a coordinator for that day." On photographers specifically, she's direct: "I suggest it be an investment, because it's what will remain after the wedding."
When Lupita is asked which wedding has stayed with her most, she doesn't hesitate. Farihin and Ryder's celebration at a former convent in Mexico - a venue called the Convent of the Lions - was, by her own description, one of the most beautiful she has ever produced. The level of production, the result, the setting. It sits in her memory as a marker of what this work can be when every element comes together.
Every couple Lupita works with becomes, in some sense, the next attempt to reach that standard. Fifteen weddings a year, a dawn coffee, and an idea that arrives before the rest of the world is awake.
